I have another confession, making this first confession of the year
As of 10am, January 19th 2005, I AM LEGALLY MARRIED !
Some chronicles on the auspicious day
6.45am - woke up, still lazing around
7.00am - removed myself from the bed, took bath
7.15am - get dressed
7.30am - have some Nescafe with my-then GF
7.50am - went to fetch our first Saksi, my then-GF's brother
8.00am - left Penang for Sg Petani, where the registration of marriage would take place
8.40am - reached Sg Petani, fetched our second Saksi - my sister
9.05am - reached the Registration Dept office, submitted the appointment form, and wait…..
took photos while waiting around, watched cartoon over the dept's TV to kill time
9.15am - the Registration officer called to verify the information given
wait somemore…
9.30am - finally, we were asked to go into the ceremony room
and waiting somemore……took some photos while waiting for the Head Registrar in the ceremony room
9.45am - Head Registrar steps in, reviewed our information, and briefed us on this marriage thingy, which goes something like this :
“Kahwin ni, buleh sekali saja noh… tak buleh 2-3 kali…. tak buleh kahwin dengan dia ni kat negeri nih, pas tu pi kahwin dengan minah mana pulak kat negeri lain… kami buleh tahu, tahu tak?? Pas tu, lepaih kahwin ni… kalau ada apa-apa nak batalkan perkahwinan, kena pi mahkamah…”
Then, both of us (me and wifey) took the marriage oath, signed the marriage papers, with both our Saksi looking on and they signed as well. And as of 10am yesterday, we were sworn in as husband and wife, legally.
My feeling now after being a legally-correct husband? Well…. it's not much different than not being one, just probably for now have to get use of referring my wifey as “My wife” instead of “My GF”
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nee shen
January 20th, 2005 at 2:54 pm
1you sound so cute.. wifey?
good for you.. now legally married.. when is Shot Jr Coming along… huh?
Anonymous
January 20th, 2005 at 4:08 pm
2Nee Shen dude,
Your's leh?? bila mau legalise??
Shot Jr won't come anytime soon, yet…. not until after traditional wedding at least…
nee shen
January 20th, 2005 at 4:44 pm
3aiyoh, don't need traditional wedding already..buat saja… legal in the law.. anak will have a nama bapa on the birth cert already.
anyway something that has been bothering me.. are you doing the siam tradition wedding or chinese one? cause if its siam.. (and if i am invited to your wedding) then its my first siam wedding lar.. never know how a siam wedding feels like..
me getting married ah.. not so sooon lar.. count by years..
Dreamkid
January 21st, 2005 at 2:16 pm
4Congrats!! Wishing you a life long happy marriage!
Anonymous
January 21st, 2005 at 6:49 pm
5Nee Shen,
Siam or Chinese? this one, normally is follow the wife wan mar…. so in this case, it should be Chinese-style lah… becos for us Siamese, the ceremony and stuffs are done in the wife's side….. the guy side normally hosts wedding dinner, just like normal Chinese wedding dinner, except we speak Siamese lah… kekeke
Victor,
Hopefully you will find one yourself too one day!
Keep on fighting….
Thanks
gotenks
January 22nd, 2005 at 9:30 pm
6>normally is follow the wife wan mar
:P
:P
:P
hmm, i didn't know or realise that i should be like that? or… you takut sama isteri?? hahahha
anyway, did you shoot any photos inside the hall??
and can't you do both the siamese and chinese's style?? hey you get a chance to collect more “bonuses”…
:P
:P
anyway, congrats to you… happy to know about this!! and am waiting for your next confession like - I am a father!
like what nee shen has said… no need to wait for traditional ceremony, etc… since you have the license to “shoot” already…
:P
:P
be well…
p/s: will you be in penang during the CNY?? maybe we could come out for a chat… well, just a suggestion anyway…
lynnee
January 23rd, 2005 at 12:09 am
7tahniah!
so this cny have to give out angpow liao lar… kekeke…
Anonymous
January 24th, 2005 at 9:14 am
8Gotenks,
I do have some photos taken during the marriage registration, let me edit and post it up later…
*sigh* normal working day somemore…
planning to have both Chinese (my wife's side) and Siamese (my side) kind of traditional wedding. Just have to see whether the time permits or not..
I'll be around during CNY - working
Lynnee,
This CNY give angpow? mmm… the agreement was only to give angpows after traditional ceremony
no ceremony = no angpows ….
kekekeke
Thanks!
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