Anand Shotiwoth. That's yours truly's name.
Is there any meaning behind that exotic-sounding name? Hmm.. let's see… in Thai (or rather, Sanskrit), “Anand” means “moving forward”. Correct me if i'm wrong, as I've been told this since I was very small. You may ask what “Shotiwoth” means - to tell you the truth, I have no idea as well. “Shotiwoth” is my family name, or people call it surnames, so my children would have “Shotiwoth” in addition to their names in future.
Sometimes, my name made people confuse with who I really am. I've been having this problem since I was small, when people saw my name, they were expecting an Indian - so when people saw somebody not Indian responding to that name, they get shocked, and ask me whether I'm a Malay (I really looked like a Malay during my teens - being exposed to sun, spoke fluent Malay). When I told them that I'm Thai, again, they got shocked, and asked how long I've been here in Malaysia - made me sound like an alien. I think somehow, I got used to the idea of me being an Indian in a Malay body.
Now, it's more or less the same story, except the body part is different now. You guys might have known by now that my wife is a Chinese. The first time when I met her mother, she was pleasantly surprised that I didn't actually look like a Thai - her expectation was, again, a darker shade like Malay - as I was fairer now (probably being in air-cond office had something to do with this). Recently, I went with my wife to her colleague's house, and we were chatting happily in Hokkien (I speak Hokkien, remember? :twisted:), when my wife actually popped this question to her colleague: Do you know that he's (referring to me) is a Thai? The colleague was surprised, as she has expected me to be Chinese (speaking fluent Hokkien and stuffs). Right… now I'm a Indian-sounding-name guy in a Chinese body.
What do you guys think of me?
By the way, go ask Nee Shen whether or not I look like a Malay when I was in Penang Free School.
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nameless@gmail.com
April 20th, 2005 at 8:21 pm
1Now are names and handles important? 'What is your name, each of you?' My name is nameless. I have no name.
You give yourselves names, because you believe they are important.
Understand, your existence is nameless. It is not voiceless, but it is nameless. The names you take are structures upon which you hang your images . . . What you are cannot be uttered, and no letter or alphabet can contain it. Yet, now you need words and letters, and names and objects. You want magic that will tell you what you are.
I have had TOO many identities to cling to ONE name
neeshen
April 21st, 2005 at 6:50 pm
2dude, you were FAIR back in school ok. Not as dark as malay, but not a chinese either, so a bit here and there lar. can say malay with chinese skin..
Anonymous
April 22nd, 2005 at 8:51 am
3nameless,
I agree. Our existance have no name - in fact, there's no actual shape or form in your existance. The name that we have now is akin to address to a building, as our existance resides in our body, and in order to be easily identified, we give ourselves names.
Nee Shen dude,
i was fair in school? hmm… then it must be during RMC days when I looked darker then…. did you actually noticed that ar dude?
Jase
April 23rd, 2005 at 9:05 am
4Nie budak melayu buat IC ciplak nak lari dari puasa…
lynnee
April 28th, 2005 at 8:50 am
5i actually thought u were an indian at first… must have been the name
teetoo
April 28th, 2005 at 11:46 pm
6Oh…u r Thai… no wander lah, your callsign so peculiar. Yup, and i tot u r Indian in the first place but then u started the “Hokkien” thread. i tot hmmmm, maybe mom chinese… ah, now haze is clear oredi…glad 2 have ya on board, dude!!
Anonymous
April 29th, 2005 at 8:33 am
7lynnee & teetoo,
got used to that liao…
some even funnier:
“You're Thai? OMG, but what's that??” - when I first came to Penang in Std 5 (1990), when the teacher introduced me to the class.
“You don't look 'Anand' - can the real Anand steps out?” - driving instructor (Indian) to me when I went to the driving school, waiting for my first driving class.
I can think of more, but the comment area can't fit it, so 2 is enough
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